These Dreams

The recent 2-day workshop was rather dreary... The trainer can really yaketty-yak... In fact he talked himself hoarse by the end of the workshop. But what made it even dreary was the participants. There was simply no 'chemistry' - a fact not helped by the trainer's lack of facilitation. He appeared more keen in explaining the concepts or 'selling' the programme than anything else, which was a pity because had he given it a balanced approach, the message would have been more effective. The therapy offers a viable alternative approach to counselling but somehow it didn't leave a positive impression on me. The line of questioning is too intrusive and interrogative for my liking. Worse of all, de Shazer in the training video practically broke every basic etiquette that are "generally-accepted principles" - there was no eye contact, longer than usual pauses, he appeared disinterested and seemed to struggling with what questions to ask, and his questions even appeared rude at some point. Not a very positive demonstration, in my opinion.

What was interesting however, was the so-called 'miracle question'. If I apply it to myself... that a miracle happened while I was sleeping... what would it be like the next day. It is indeed thought-provoking. What kind of differences would the rest of the next day and life make? Hmm... If the miracles that I seek really take place, I should think there will be a world of difference in my life. I can envision myself smiling with relief as a heavy load of financial burden is lifted off my shoulders. My debts are paid, and I'll apply for my master programme immediately. I can quit my job with a peace of mind as I'll be able to study full-time with vast financial resources to see me through. I can go shopping for my car, house and even the things that I would like to buy... Financial freedom and security will be a dream come true. I can fulfil my calling to be a counselling psychologist and at the same time, pursue my dream of running my own resort and spa. Argh... a life of bliss and fulfilled goals.

I know that these dreams are not merely wishful thinking. They can come to pass. They will come to pass. Simply because I'm not without a God. I'm not withot hope. I just need to keep on believing and not lose my visions. Everyday is a day closer to my dreams unfolding. Unlike a people without destiny, I believe the universe conspires to make my dreams happen (quoting the words of Ralph W. Emerson).